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1ST TRIMESTER WORKOUT: This is a fun, full body, h

1ST TRIMESTER WORKOUT: This is a fun, full body, home- workout. I used two different bands to add resistance (and strength training) along with some small weights.
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If you don’t have a home gym, don’t fret! I’m somewhere between 11-12 weeks and took almost 3 weeks off from my regimen because of morning sickness! 🙈 But today I kickstarted my week with a cardio warm up then added abs to this home workout. 💙
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It’s super important to maintain strength and muscle tone as my belly grows. (Gotta support the big watermelon 🍉 sprouting out) 🤪 The greatest challenge is the crazy fatigue that randomly hits for whole days sometime, ahhhh!
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Wearing @beyondyoga #fitnessblogger #portlandblogger #maternitystyle #pregnancyworkout #hittworkout #portlandblogger

What do you think- do I have that pregnancy glow?

What do you think- do I have that pregnancy glow? Or is just perspiration from this heat? ☀️🤪 At my first exam Wednesday, they told me I’m closer to 12 weeks already, but I get to do a dating ultra sound that will confirm the age as close as possible today!
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Who would have guessed there’d be a 10 year span between Ella and my second pregnancy?!? Seems like a lifetime ago, but at the same time just yesterday. The years are so precious, but fly by faster and faster each decade. Can’t wait to slow things down this little one- boy or girl- and enjoy this next chapter!
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Any guesses on whether it will be a boy or girl!l? So far I’ve had a more difficult pregnancy with being sick🤮 but no other noticeable differences this far. #babymama #portlandblogger

ANNOUNCEMENT!!! I am SO SO excited to finally shar

ANNOUNCEMENT!!! I am SO SO excited to finally share with you guys that we are PREGNANT and already two months along!
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These last 6 weeks I’ve been SO super sick (at least three times more than with Ella) so needless to say, I completely dropped the ball with style posts and content for the summer!!! 🙈 Major apologies you guys!

While I’ll likely still have hit-or-miss weeks ahead of me, I’m hoping to document the baby bump and share this beautiful journey with you guys more frequently from here on out. The last time I was preggos was an ENTIRE 10 years ago so I’m completely out of the loop when it comes to registries and best clothing brands, etc. Any and all tips appreciated you guys!!
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#ImExpecting #mommyblogger #portlandblogger #lavendalately

Almost 100% of you guys voted YAY for my new brune

Almost 100% of you guys voted YAY for my new brunette locks! 🥰

For those who didn’t see my stories, I finally gave in and did my own hair at home last week!! I had never done at-home hair dye, so I researched a few options before stumbling upon the @moroccanoil mask! It’s temporary, gentle and deposits color instead of stripping my hair. So, best of both worlds!

I linked it up for you if you’re interested in checking it out. It’s supposed to gradually fade and wash out, but I’ve been redoing the mask once a week to keep it this rich chocolate tone. What do ya think?! http://liketk.it/2R1fF #liketkit @liketoknow.it #moroccanoil

Summer is in full bloom and I’m itching to book

Summer is in full bloom and I’m itching to book some trips! What are your favorite PNW vacation spots?
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My go-to summer look right now. All about these co

My go-to summer look right now. All about these cotton staples and layers that I can peel off easily.
Shop slim tanks and cute cut-offs to your email with the @liketoknow.it app. http://liketk.it/2QMe8 #liketkit #mirrorselfie #portlandblogger

Planning some fun road trips for the summer with t

Planning some fun road trips for the summer with this cutie. She’s old enough to be a bonafide assistant/photographer, so let the adventures begin! 🤪

#mommyblogger #lavendascloset #portlandblogger

YIKES you guys! I’ve been MIA on here for two we

YIKES you guys! I’ve been MIA on here for two weeks now, barely feeling well enough to throw up a couple of posts. Forgive me for not being more vocal and involved, because as you all know, I am no stranger to politics or talking about the heavy stuff.
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My heart is being pulled in so many directions, with some family troubles, loved ones who’ve been ill and a world that seems to have gone absolutely mad in more ways than we can all count.
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I’m reminded of a political rally I attended a while back, where one of my favorite pastors was asked to speak. It instantly stuck with me and rings true in the midst of every new trial I face, whether alone or as a community or as a nation. His message was this: Jesus. Jesus is the answer. The systematic hatred and greed seems overwhelming? Jesus is the ultimate heart changer. The weight of oppression presses in? Jesus offers rest and peace.
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We do our part. We are the hands and feet and sometimes even the mouthpiece. We are the arms that wrap around a broken mother or hurting child. We are the light to someone in their darkest time and the safe space for those lost and afraid. Jesus calls us to be the salt of the earth and to love, love, love in whatever fashion and with whichever gifts he’s bestowed upon us. The true change that’s needed in this world is grace and love from our life-giver and miracle worker. Christ is the answer.
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So, I pass on the same message- Let’s fight for justice, protect the vulnerable and most importantly, pour Christ’s love into whatever mission we find ourselves on. 🙏🏼 I pray everyone stays safe and healthy out there this weekend. Lots of love you guys.
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#christianblogger #portlandblogger

I was excited to hear about the launch of @blanqig

I was excited to hear about the launch of @blanqigirls new denim line. Any fellow mamas wish they’d had #maternityjeans this cute during their pregnancy?!
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These are so cute and comfortable, that you’d wear them post/baby too! I love the design of the low waist with a hidden tummy panel. #blanqigirls

LINKING up a book by Ella’s dad called “A Kids

LINKING up a book by Ella’s dad called “A Kids Book About Racism” in my stories. @akidsbookabout Check it out and support another black-owned company.
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My little muffin right here has had SO many questions about the riots and protests this week. Peaceful protests land well in her 10 year old heart, but the riots and violence do not. Discussing what happened to George Floyd was not the first time we had to process the reality of discrimination and how it would affect Ella throughout her life. Even when she was pretty teeny, I never felt we had the luxury of shielding Ella from the horrible reality of racism and discrimination in our world.

Ella is a beautiful mix of Puerto Rican and black. She has always identified herself as a “brown person” (because she’s so literal) 🤪 and she’s always been confident and proud of her dark skin and curly hair.

I remember the racial tension going on during our last presidential election, however, and getting overwhelmed at the realization that I know so little about how to protect my baby girl from a tragically flawed world. Racism. Discrimination. How do you begin to prepare and arm a kid for what’s to come?

This isn’t the part where I drop a bullet point magical formula. I don’t think any of us feel authorized to do so. But what we’ve done over the years has been to make daily steps toward educating her and continually educating ourselves. We have taught her to think critically, to love fiercely and to forgive easily. When she has faced obstacles this far, we have reinforced our love and support, while allowing her to grow through sometimes painful experiences. Because each new generation is an opportunity for growth and freedom from the chains of systemic and cultural racism.

This week, we add to the lesson book of life; We process it out loud, mourning for those who face blatant injustice like George Floyd did. We pray for and stand with those protesting peacefully across the nation and remember that this is not a season that will pass, but a moment of growth in our own lives. Something that will mark us and change Ella’s future, and the future of all person of color- in more ways than we may know.

#blacklivesmatter

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Some days are for healing and rest. Others, you st

Some days are for healing and rest. Others, you stand up and fight.

Spending some time in fellowship, just receiving soul food from family and friends. Isn’t it a powerful thing, how a little bit of love can cover so much pain and suffering? Laughter, snuggles, breaking bread... these simple acts of unity, bond us together and fill in the little cracks of life.

Since I was a kid, I always found comfort knowing that I had family everywhere I went, fellow Christians always warm and welcoming, showing hospitality and generosity. I always looked forward to getting older and creating a home where I could offer the same. “ So if there is any encouragement in Christ, any comfort from love, any participation in the Spirit, any affection and sympathy, complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind.” Philippians 2: 1-2

While I sometimes still can’t believe I’m a grown up, I know better now than ever, how much power can be found in community, family and human to human connection. Hope you guys enjoy a great weekend with your favorite humans. ❤️

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